hi dear
your manner in asking remindes me the school teachers.
I'm afraid you 're asking us to solve one of your assignments.

I hope those options aren't yours , and you're not in a stuation to pick one of those tow kinds of men , although they are all similar -Sorry men-.

My feelings go towards that man how is poor but lovely,
it's more comfort to live poor than to talent the mood of a nervous guy - forget about his mother- and more likely to deal with.
any way we're waiting for those how experienced the situation to tell us more about it.

dear Gelawej

first ,thank you for your participation

no ,don't be afraid

it's not one of my assignments

and I am not in that situation .to ask you this quastion and find a solution for this problem

just I have heared about persons who are facing this kind of problems

and may be
we can help them

thanx a lot Gelawej

however ,both are problems but we need to know which one is the biggest?

Iwas just kidding dear Peri
As i previosly saied being engaged with a poor but kind person is more likly to satisfy the man's needs , as I noticed that the rude and tough people are unbearable,you can just make a review of persons you well know, look at the Fathers in our community ,most of them are nervous and aggressive, and their families doesn't talent them in deed , although they don't show this respecting them.
My Dad donsn't earn so much , however he is understanding person , and so polite , we love really him , on countrary on of our folks is tough ,even his wife's board of him , don't you think that her fillings are legal and understandable.

I think to be bad-tempered is the biggest problem :evil:

already married

or rude and bad tempered
all of these are the biggest problems